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[cynderellaj]

 So, my brother is engaged to a woman who has a 6 year old son from her previous marraige.  They both spend alot of time with our family.

My dilemna is this:  I am making my mom a mini-album with photos of all her grandkids in it.  Do I include the Fiance's son even though he isn't technically my mom's grandchild or do I leave it to her actual grandkids??? 

I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings on christmas when mom opens it.........

TIA!!!

ETA:  THank you all for your opinions.  I should have added that they are getting married on the 21st of December so it is before Christmas.  I really like the idea of including him so noone gets their feelings hurt, but I will put it on the last page so it can be removed easily and just hope that never happens because we really like them

[AnnOminous]

 Would it be possible to include him, but in a way that the pages can be discretely removed later if it doesn't work out?

[MoochieMama]

 If it were me I would ask my brother what he thinks. You don't want to include the child and have his fiance get upset so I think it's best to ask him.

[evilqueen]

 I think you should include at least one photo of the son because you brother may be hurt if you did not because that will be his stepson soon.

[SarahA]

 I'd say add him or there will be hurt feelings.

[Scrappin13]

 ewww, that's a hard one.  If they were already married, I would say yes.  Maybe you could just put one photo in there or do a separate mini frame with the 6 yr old in it.  Then hopefully there will be no hurt feelings.

[Grandma Flowers]

 Hmm.  A grandma can't have too many grandchildren, no matter where they come from.  Pages can be changed/removed if every necessary.

[beachlover]

 he is not part of the family yet right?  and you re making the bok right now?  then I would not...  but, that is just my opinion

[Sus79]

 When I´ve made album for my mom I always included all the grandkids, both by blood and by relations. That is what I fell the best with

[DolphinSoul]

 That is hard.. but for right now.. I would not include it, b/c they are not married and a lot can change between the wedding. So just incase something doesn't work out. Because technically it isn't an 'offical' grandchild yet. That's a really touch call though.

[stampaholic85]

 I too think it would be best to include him maybe the last page so it could be removed it need be.....

[She-She]

 You can't live for what happens tomorrow, if he is part of her life now, then include him!  I'm not married to my b/f, and if his grandson was out of my life because of a break up, I wouldn't get rid of my pics of him, he is a special part of my life now....and hopefully for a very long time!

[SuzieScraper]

 I would include him.  Kids are kids and if you don't include him then it might hurt feelings now and later.

[Shanscraps]

 add him....

[hlg1rose]

 ok, i am in the same situation, with an older girl.  i would include the boy in a few of the pictures, you will want to make him welcome and it will make your brother and his soon to be new wife very happy.

[naney1952]

I say add him in too 

[CaughtULokN2]

 Does your mom treat the son like a grandchild?  If so I would do a few pages with him on it.

My nephew has a step daughter and I included her in some of the things I did for my mom.  She treats her just like on of the great grandchild.